Descriptive Psychology Psychology in Everyday Life

Understanding Attachment, Love, and Parenting

By Davood Gozli | by Davood Gozli

Any attempt to understand human relationships leads to an exploration of attachment and the importance of parent-child bond. Though my YouTube channel has been indirectly attentive to these themes, there are a few videos where I have approached the subject. In this post, I give an overview of the material from three videos. If you’d like to see the source material, you can click on the video links. Attachment: The Foundation of Relationships The first…

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General Update Reading Group

My “Top 10” Books of 2024

By Davood Gozli | by Davood Gozli

Inspired by a friend’s tweet, I decided to reflect on what I read during 2024 and make my own list of favourite reads of the year. I’m dividing the list into fiction and nonfiction, and because I have a stronger affinity, in general, for literary fiction—in the spirit of delaying whatever offers the most gratification—let us begin with the nonfiction category. Nonfiction 10. The Scent of Time by Byung-Chul Han (Translated by Daniel Steuer)This essay,…

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book review Fiction

‘The Thibaults’ by Roger Martin du Gard: Reflections on a Masterpiece

By Davood Gozli | by Davood Gozli

Reading The Thibaults (Les Thibault) was one of my highlights of 2024. Published originally in serial form between 1922 and 1940, the novel tells the story of a family—their historical context, their relationships, and their movements across the private and public spheres. World War I also casts a heavy shadow over the story, but du Gard keeps us guessing, drawing out the suspense and urges us not to think the war was simply inevitable. The…

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Culture Education

Phones versus Play: What Jonathan Haidt Means by the Great Rewiring of Childhood in ‘The Anxious Generation’

By Davood Gozli | by Davood Gozli

In The Anxious Generation: How the Great Rewiring of Childhood Is Causing an Epidemic of Mental Illness, Jonathan Haidt contrasts two fundamentally different ways of growing up: a play-based childhood versus a phone-based childhood. The shift from physical, open-ended play to structured, screen-driven interaction has changed how children explore the world and socialize, with significant developmental and mental health implications. Haidt identifies two primary forces behind this change: “safetyism” in parenting, which over-protects kids from…

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Popular Culture

Joker: On the Folly of (Total) Branding

By Davood Gozli | by Davood Gozli

“Joker: Folie à Deux” extends the disturbing narrative of Arthur Fleck to a point where it can no longer be extended. We find him trapped in a double bind, caught between his lived reality and the weight of his Joker persona—a “brand” that was initially his means of escape, his line of flight, now confines him. The film shows the dark side of “branding,” when brand becomes totalizing, when an identity becomes locked into a…

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